Monthly Archives: March 2023

CHAHTA PIA (WE ARE CHOCTAW)

Living out the Chahta spirit of faith, family and culture.

Vision Statement of Choctaw Nation

We spent the afternoon experiencing the Choctaw Cultural Center in Durant, Oklahoma, where we met a vibrant community of Choctaw passionate about sharing their culture with us. The beautiful building opens to a large concourse where visitors first meet twelve living people from the twelve different districts of Choctaw Nation.

So often, non-natives are introduced to this continent’s indigenous history as something in the far-distant past, or worse, we are fed harmful negative stereotypes and disparaging images in today’s mainstream media that perpetuate generational trauma and the erasure efforts of modern governments. It was incredible to be introduced to Choctaw people from across southeastern Oklahoma in the same way we meet people just living their lives wherever we travel.

Different language? Yes. Different history from our experiences? Yes. Proud of their culture? Yes.

Below are some photos from the first exhibit in the Orientation Gallery. **We were rushing to view the entire exhibition before heading to the social dancing and my phone battery was dying, so these photos do no justice to the complexity of this first exhibit.

“We honor the past, live in the present and look to the future. We are resilient people, overcoming adversity with grace and dignity. Those who are Choctaw Proud work hard to be successful and give back to their communities.”

https://www.choctawnation.com/

We were invited to learn about Choctaw dancing in the auditorium. Five staff members stepped away from their desks and took turns explaining the significance of each dance. For millennia, Choctaw dances have been a way to reconnect with old friends from different clans and provide an opportunity to meet new people. Today, social dancing is still intended for participation and not performance. We were invited to join in and one need not be Choctaw to enjoy the dances.

One of the dancers told us that regalia is fun to wear for special occasions, in the same way we might dress up for a big wedding or gala event, But it is not necessary to wear every day! By dancing today in contemporary work wear, these Choctaw dancers are normalizing for themselves and for visitors the tradition of dance as a way to mingle and hang out with friends.

We learned that all ages dance and the dancers are accompanied by chanting. Rarely are words used – the chanter may be joined by the dancers for certain phrases and sometimes the chanter will use rhythm sticks to help mark the time or note a change in the steps. The Choctaw Nation is a matrilineal society and women dance in all three categories of dance: war dances, animal dances, and social dances.

A peaceful people, Choctaw historically would defend their territory when necessary. Eight days of dancing prepared the community for an impending battle. Upon the warriors’ return, more dancing would help re-assimilate them back into village life.

Choctaw have great respect for all living things and two of the dances today were inspired by animals. The turtle is an important animal to study and revere – by moving slowly and taking its time to move and make decisions, turtles are regarded as wise. Their long life demonstrates their success. The diamond-back rattlesnake teaches us to conserve our energy; a warning rattle alerts intruders. Taking a moment to look for escape before striking is a good lesson to us that encounters can end peacefully and violence is not always needed to co-exist.

Turtle Dance

Friendship, courtship, and marriage dances mark important social aspects of life. Today we learned the Friendship Dance.

The half-hour of dancing concluded with a short film detailing previously unknown stories about the last removal of Choctaw by train in 1903 from ancestral lands to present-day Oklahoma. You can watch it here online:

After the film, we headed to Champuli Cafe for fried bread and lavender lemonade before heading to the four permanent galleries depicting the journey of the Choctaw people from creation to the present day. Respect for nature and the interconnectedness of all living things is a core theme throughout the history of this nation.

We were both impressed with the quality and creative artistry of the first two exhibits. Sarah rushed through exhibits three and four and headed to the Gift Shop! Joe attempted to engage with all four exhibits but neither of us made it outside to the Living Village because the complex was closing. We gave ourselves only three hours to explore this facility and we easily could have spent two whole days immersing ourselves in all the things to see and do.

European contact brought devastating diseases and new weapons that decimated indigenous populations across the continent and left native survivors unable to physically defend their territory against Manifest Destiny. Less than 3% of the total US population today, many Native Americans still suffer from historical trauma, economic disparities, lack of access to healthcare and education, and exploitation of natural resources on their land.

The Choctaw Nation (215, 000 members*) has worked hard collectively to revive and pass on its cultural traditions, language, and values. By investing in themselves and teaching respect for shared values, this tribe has created economic opportunities and jobs for its members. With a focus on education and pride in cultural traditions, young people are connecting to their heritage. We can learn a lot from the resiliency of the Choctaw people. We encourage you to make a trip to Oklahoma and learn about Choctaw history and culture for yourself.

*to contextualize population numbers, there are 45 countries in the world that have smaller populations than Choctaw Nation.

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Texas is still big

Tuesday dawned sunny but smoggy in El Paso. The local geography causes air pressure inversions that trap pollution from cars, trucks, trains, etc. along with emissions from local industries.

As we pointed ourselves northeast, we noticed a drastic improvement in Mike’s performance. We spent the day driving through west Texas, dominated by oil and gas fields. Sarah read that the Texas Department of Highway spreads 30,000 pounds (!) of wildflower seeds each year along the ditches. The Texas state flower, bluebonnet, is a regional species of spring-flowering lupin. There are a few different legends about how this blue-purple wildflower got to Texas. One 18th century story claims a Spanish nun appeared to indigenous people to teach them about Jesus. She was wearing a blue cloak over her brown habit and appeared several times to two different groups. On the morning after her last appearance, the fields were covered in a new flower the same color as the nun’s cloak. Even more miraculous is that the nun in this story never actually left her convent in Spain. It is said that she projected herself to North America through deep contemplation and prayer.

We spent the night in Seymour, Texas at the HH Creek Inn. We split a delicious 16 oz ribeye dinner at the Rusty Spur Saloon and thoroughly enjoyed watching the Breakaway Roping competition from the Lazy E Arena on the newly launched Cowgirl channel.

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On the road again…

We bade farewell to sunny Yuma on Saturday and struck east for Deming, New Mexico. Crossing the Continental Divide at more than 4, 000 feet, Mike was struggling with the winds and the long, slow inclines. We made it into town at 7:57 pm local time; Si Senor (highly recommended to us by friends) closes at 8:00 pm, so we tried Cactus Cafe, instead. Delicious tacos, a homemade mushroom swiss burger and cold beer filled us up!

On Sunday morning, Mike just did not want to start. We were stuck until garages would open on Monday. There is not much to do in Deming, New Mexico. Joe made two trips to Walmart on foot and we settled in for an afternoon of Netflix and naps. PBJ for dinner!

No one in Deming could work on Mike, but the VanAlert app pointed us to Fox Land Auto in El Paso, Texas – 82 miles away. Gerry from AAA re-arranged his morning plans and safely towed us to Rico’s garage. Journey was a champ riding alone in the van being towed backwards for an hour and a half, while we sat in the tow truck cab with Gerry. it was about this time last year that Mike broke down on our way to Vegas. I think he’s trying to tell us he wants to stay in Yuma.

Rico conferred with our Vegas mechanic who rebuilt the engine last summer. After running some compression tests, we all agreed a leaky valve was probably the culprit. Rico also installed an electrical starter component, giving us more power and reliability.

We took an Uber to the Travelodge and checked in for the afternoon. Rico and his father had Mike fixed by the end of the day!

Rico, Sr. trained in Germany – worked on VWs for his whole career!

We celebrated with dinner at Carlos & Mickey’s Cantina. Sarah reacquainted herself with melon margaritas!

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Winter in Yuma

This winter we were kept busy with puppy training, in addition to our usual schedule of fun in the sun with our snowbird pals. Most days, we would head to the pool around lunchtime for a floating visit with friends. Stories were spun and jokes were shared and we all had a good time not shoveling snow.

Joe golfed on a few occasions and thought about joining the pickleball craze, but they start playing at 8:00 a.m. which is way too early to be bouncing around competitively!

Sarah quilted, joined a crafty card-making group, and painted a bit. We both read a lot of books and on colder evenings, watched Arizona PBS Check, Please and Finding Your Roots.


We flew back east for a long weekend visit with our grandchild to watch the Super Bowl. A quick road trip to Newport Beach for Joe to attend his Football Dinner gave Journey a chance to stick her paws in the Pacific Ocean.

We are grateful for another winter in the southwest desert. Thanks to all who came to visit us this season!

Meatball making with Grampaw
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